First of all, thank you to everyone for the well wishes for our first home study appointment. D and I both think it went really well. I wasn’t 100% sure what to expect but it was actually a very good experience. Our social worker is super nice and I am glad we will be working with her. We basically spent the entire two hours just answering her questions. She asked us how we met, about our courtship (if you can call it that), our strengths and weaknesses as a couple, what we see as our role as parents and other questions like that. But we also talked about adoption in general and how we will communicate with our child about his/her adoption. D and I had briefly discussed some of that but it was good to make sure we were on the same page. I had always assumed that we would talk about it from the beginning and would tell our son/daughter the story of their adoption. It’s not going to be a taboo subject in our household but something to celebrate. Our child will have a story, it will be the story of how our family came to be, and I want our child to know about it. Part of the conversation was about ways to incorporate the child’s Ethiopian culture into their daily lives, which is very important to us. That made me think about how D and I have been trying to educate ourselves about Ethiopia and have learned a fair amount thus far.

I love the bumper sticker! And thanks for all the "factoids" on Ethiopia for the rest of us not in the know. I knew your homestudy would go well -- see, nothing to worry about! Just thing, you are one big step closer!
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear that your home study went well...amazing that the entire thing only took two hours given that you talked about your courtship. Amazing! How did Damon condense his story down to such a short tale?
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Marty
That's a great bumper sticker, Em! I've decided that I need to educate myself more about Africa, so I'm going to start reading the book _When A Crocodile Eats the Sun: A Memoir of Africa_ about Zimbabwe. Mom read it and said it was interesting. If you come across any books that focus on Ethiopia let me know and I'll do the same!
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